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Family Worship Bible Guide

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The Family Worship Bible Guide:

Laying The Foundation for Transforming Your Home


Let's be real. Family worship is a little known subject among evangelicals.


Family Worship is more known and practiced among Dutch Reformed denominations than in run of the mill evangelical denominations. Anecdotally speaking, I've known and worked closely with Presbyterians in my life, and although it's a known subject, it isn't practiced as much as you may think. Same goes for Reformed Baptists. But overall, this situation is changing as more resources are produced. 


Family worship is having a renaissance of sorts. One reason is the decaying culture surrounding us. Christian parents are being convicted to take full advantage of their relationship with their children and lead them devotionally to attend to the voice of God as found in the Scriptures not only on the Lord's day but every other day too. Whereas before family worship was looked as being unnecessary or a spiritual luxury, more and more evangelicals are looking at it as indispensable in our current cultural climate. 


But what is meant by family worship? In essence, family worship is the daily practice of parents designating a time to lead their children to read scripture, pray, sing spiritual songs for the purpose of creating conditions conducive for robust faith and spiritual growth. I say parents because if the husband and father is not present, the mom is in charge. Then again, there are single dads, too. 


Families are so diverse nowadays. Family worship may be conducted by one parent if only one parent is believing. In any case, family worship is intended to be daily, or at least consistent. Does dad work late hours? Does mom work outside the home? Coordination of schedules may present a challenge. Parents have to come to the point in their lives where they are persuaded that to prioritize their own and their children's spiritual lives, they will have to commit themselves to consistently being together to attend to their spiritual needs on a regular basis. 


What direction or help can a father obtain for family worship? One immensely helpful resource is a little book published by Reformation Heritage Books called The Family Worship Bible Guide. Full disclosure: Reformation Heritage Books generously provided me with a free copy of this book in a synthetic leather edition that was recently released. This blog post is my honest review. I hasten to add that I bought the hardback cover edition of this book when it was first released several years ago. I even used it in adult Sunday School class and consulted it for sermon applications. 


To the best of my knowledge, the Family Worship Bible Guide is a section of the Study notes from the Reformation Heritage King James Version Study Bible released in 2014. Now, although I don't own that Study Bible, I did buy, (once it became available) the same Study Bible in Spanish called Herencia Reformada. Interestingly, then, the same notes for family worship are found in the Spanish version of the Study Bible, and it was especially convenient for me because I was a member of a Spanish speaking congregation. So, I have been a fan and supporter of this resource for several years. 


In a sense, it's like having Dr. Joel Beeke as a coach beside you, guiding you every step of the way. He tells us in the introduction, “Family worship will require some preparation.” Let me share some bullet points. In broad strokes, such preparation includes: 


  • praying for God's blessing upon family worship,
  • having your Bibles ready
  • having a Scripture passage preselected
  • having the Catechism of your choice, or perhaps something like the Pilgrim's Progress for discussions
  • choice of Psalms or hymns to sing
  • picking a place to gather like the dining room table or the living room
  • setting the times for family worship
  • guarding those times for family worship
  • Aiming for brevity


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Dr. Beeke goes on to offer deeper spiritual support for daily instruction in the Word of God, daily prayer before the throne of God, and daily singing to the praise of God. The father has no excuses on how to implement family worship, even if he adapts some of the suggestions to his circumstances. For example, some families may not be able to do family worship twice a day as mentioned in the introduction. Fine, so do it once daily. 


Now, my two cents differ slightly from Dr. Beeke's suggestions, but only slightly. I just want to acknowledge in my experience and neck of the woods, there are a lot of single mothers, fathers and grandparents or extended family members raising kids nowadays. Ideally, this shouldn't be the case, but it is. Unfortunately, there are a lot of single mothers out there. Some are immature and say they don't need a man. These claim that they function as both mother and father by necessity. Others who are a little wiser recognize that they can't fill a father's shoes. This situation highlights a great two-fold need in the church today, at least in North America. It's really a symbiotic relationship between sound preaching the whole counsel of God and family worship. 


The preaching of the Word, as the experimental means of grace is sorely lacking. This sort of preaching gives dry bones life not only to individuals but to families. Experimental and applicatory preaching that glorifies God by opening the Scriptures so that the Spirit can open the doors of the homes and produce a divine work of family reformation that will result in family worship. This may lead to Apostolic prescriptions being obeyed like the command of older, wiser ladies to help the younger ladies out (Titus 2:3-5). 


Although it is quite common to hear in contemporary preaching on the failures and sins of men from the pulpit, it is almost as if addressing the unique failures and sins of women is the third rail of pulpit ministry in America. None of us is without sin. The purpose of teaching and preaching is to benefit believers and glorify God, and that will be seen and felt by men, women, and children. Not in the abstract, but in the nitty-gritty of households. And it takes blood, sweat and tears to accompany preaching and teaching. As Dr. Beeke said in the introduction, not only Abraham's faith, but his obedience as well. 


Along these lines, I remember teaching an adult Sunday school class a few years ago. I had my Herencia Reformada Study Bible and we were in a parallel teaching series to the preaching series. Ephesians 5 and 6 received much attention over the span of weeks. The family worship notes came in handy for the lessons. Note #3 on Ephesians 5 was very apt for my audience. It says, “Marriage exists to show the glory of Christ. It is God's display case for the beautiful relationship between Christ and the church. Husbands and wives have a high calling. Commit yourself to serve your spouse as God commands in His Word. Whether your marriage is sweet or sorrowful”


This note should resonate with all Christian married couples. Marriage isn't always sweet. It's sometimes sorrowful, but neither the lack of sweetness or abundance of sorrow is the standard by which you measure Christian marriage. What better commendation can I give to study notes coming from a Bible like this? They are as honest as the Bible itself is. The Family Worship Bible Guide is full of experiential, applicatory insights, helpful not only for family worship but for teaching and preaching. I wholeheartedly recommend it for your family and church. Soli Deo Gloria.


Check out EPISODE 21 for an abridged reading of John Bunyan’s Pilgrim’s Progress!


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By Urban Puritano August 23, 2026
The author of What Is a Reformed Baptist? gives baptism four senses — but the engine is allegory's, and his own confession already ruled on it. Tom Hicks — a confessional Reformed Baptist pastor whose very handle, @TomHicks2LCF, flies the Second London flag — recently offered on X what he weirdly called "the fourfold sense of Christian baptism." Four numbered senses, each pinned to a medieval label: immersion as a sign of union with Christ (literal); a sign of Christ's death and resurrection (allegorical); a sign of the believer's death to self and new life (tropological); a sign of the believer's passing from this world into the next (anagogical). Patrick Schreiner — author of The Four Senses of Scripture, the most prominent recent case for recovering the quadriga — welcomed it: a smile emoji and a "thank you" GIF. The gesture is light. It is also telling, and it is why this small thread from X repays a longer look. The author of the retrieval's flagship book has just cheered the fourfold method as it steps off the page. What was a claim about how biblical texts mean is now applied, with the movement's blessing, to how a sacrament means. I want to be careful not to pay this the wrong compliment. One could call the post creative and mean it warmly. It seems as if many confessional Reformed Baptists do. But the creativity is the whole problem, not a mitigating grace. A hermeneutic is a discipline: it constrains what a thing may be taken to mean and tells you when you have gone wrong. A heuristic is a generator: it prompts you to produce, and it never runs dry. The fourfold scheme, turned on baptism, constrains nothing. It generates — four slots, and an invitation to fill them. That a godly and able pastor can fill them so readily is not evidence the method works; it is evidence of what the method is. A scheme that can find its four senses in a text, in an ordinance, in a hymn, in a handshake, is not discovering four senses in any of them. It is running its apparatus, which will always yield four, because yielding four is what it was built to do. Not a bug — the feature. There is a name for the faculty at work. Pareidolia is the mind's readiness to see a face where there is only cloud; apophenia, its broader cousin, is the readiness to see connection where nothing is in fact connected. The quadriga laid over a sacrament is apophenia in its Sunday clothes — the familiar fourfold silhouette projected onto a subject that never asked for it. Baptism is not a text with a literal sense and three spiritual ones stacked above it. It is one sign, and it signifies richly: union, death and resurrection, new life, the hope of glory — all of it whole and undivided in a single thick redemptive-historical reading of the texts that give it (Rom. 6:3–5; Col. 2:12; 1 Pet. 3:21). Sorting that one meaning into four medieval bins does not enrich the meaning. It multiplies the bins. And then the thread did the argument's work for it. A reader, Mark Harrelson, noticed a gap: "5. For remission of sins. You missed that one." The fourfold scheme had left out something the Nicene Creed itself confesses of baptism — and a fifth item is an awkward thing to hand a fourfold sense. Hicks's answer has real theological content, and none of it is wrong: Christ procures remission at the cross, faith is the hand that receives it, and baptism asserts and confirms it to the believer. Hold that sacramentology; it is sound. Then watch what the method makes him do with it. Remission, he said, is "contained in the allegorical sense." The four senses did not produce remission; challenged, they absorbed it, folding a fifth doctrine into a slot already holding another. That is not a fourfold reading yielding its riches. It is an elastic container stretching to swallow whatever the objection supplies. If the allegorical sense can take on remission after the fact — remission, which has no quarrel with the "death and resurrection" already sitting in that bin — then the "senses" are not distinct compartments of meaning the sacrament yields. They are labels roomy enough to relabel. Press them and they expand; and a scheme that expands on demand has stopped dividing anything at all. Remission was never a missing fifth sense. It was already inside the one meaning of baptism, exactly where union and new life and hope already were. The category error is the surface. The deeper problem is confessional — and here the irony turns tragic. And the tragedy is only multiplied by however many Reformed Baptists it influences to downplay or contradict the this foundational confessional hermeneutic. Hicks is no bystander to the Second London; he wrote the book on it. In What Is a Reformed Baptist? he argues that Reformed Baptist identity is confessional identity — that to be a faithful Reformed Baptist is to hold the historic confessions, and the Second London above all. The man who taught a generation that being Reformed Baptist means holding this confession has now read baptism in a way the confession forecloses. He cannot wave the objection off, because it is his own standard, in his own book, that raises it. The Second London, with Westminster, declares that the true and full sense of any Scripture "is not manifold, but one." Those four words do logical work. "Not manifold" is a denial — not a ranking, not a subordination, but a denial — of multiple senses as such. It denies the genus. And the quadriga, a theory of four senses, is the most prominent species of that genus. The denial of a genus necessarily contains the denial of its species: deny that Scripture's sense is manifold, and you have denied, in the same breath, the fourfold scheme that is manifoldness's flagship. To confess 1.9 is to have already declined the quadriga — and having declined it for texts, one has declined it for whatever else the fourfold silhouette gets projected onto next. This is no novel reading of the phrase. It is the plain force of "not manifold," and it is how the confessional tradition treated the question. Tyndale, Perkins, Whitaker, Leigh, and Turretin did not say the spiritual senses must be kept subordinate to the literal. They said Scripture has one sense. The men who wrote "not manifold, but one" were denying multiplicity, not tidying it into a hierarchy. The confession does not only deny; it directs. Having called the true and full sense "not manifold, but one," the same paragraph says how the one sense is found: it "must be searched and known by other places that speak more clearly" — Scripture set beside Scripture, read under the analogy of faith. That is the confessional method for establishing a doctrine's full meaning, baptism included: not four bins to be filled, but the gathering of every text that bears on the sign into one coherent teaching. Remission belongs to the doctrine of baptism not because it can be tucked into an allegorical slot, but because Scripture, searched and known — Acts 2:38 beside Romans 6, and the creed's "one baptism for the remission of sins" — teaches it as part of the one thing baptism signifies. The analogy of faith is intertextual, not fourfold. What was offered under the name of depth is a medieval grid standing in for the confession's own method — and standing in for it poorly, since the grid had no slot for remission until someone pointed out the lack. There is a stock reply that this is simply not what the Confession means. But asserting that "not manifold, but one" leaves room for other distinct senses is not an argument; it is the very thing to be shown, and it owes three unpaid debts: an alternative reading of the actual words "not manifold, but one"; historical evidence that the framers meant to leave a door open for distinct senses; and some account of the genus–species relation on which a man may deny multiple senses and keep four of them. Until those are produced, the four words stand. So — allegorist? Not by conviction. Despite recommending allegory to frame a spiritual sense for the doctrine of baptism, Hicks would reject the label, and the confession he wrote a book to commend rejects it for him. The charge was never that he holds allegory's creed. It is that he has borrowed allegory's engine and set it running against the very standard he taught the churches to keep. The soft retrieval of the quadriga keeps arriving at the same wall, and it arrives now in a new field. Whether the fourfold sense is offered for a passage or for the ordinance of baptism, the confessional verdict does not move. The waters are rich — rich with union, death, resurrection, new life, remission, and the hope of passing through the last judgment into glory. But that is the fullness of one sense, not the sum of four. There is a leaven here, and it is spreading. The manifold sense of Scripture, long resisted among Baptists, has unfortunately found a welcome among some Reformed Baptist pastors and seminary professors — and now it has jumped the tracks a second time, from the senses of a text to the senses of a doctrine. A fourfold sense of baptism today; a fourfold sense of the Supper, the church, the covenants tomorrow. Each step is greeted as recovery, as depth. But none of it is the confessional framing of the analogy of faith, and a little leaven leavens the whole lump. What spreads here is not a retrieval. It is a grid mistaken for a method, and a fad mistaken for a tradition. It may be someone's tradition. But not ours. Heuristic, not hermeneutic. Not manifold, but one. We distinguish. POST SCRIPT... Pastor Tom kindly unblocked me and replied to my X article: "Thank you for the post and the generous interaction. Allegory in the medieval usage was often severed from the meaning of the text and generated fresh meaning independent of the what the Word of God actually said. When the Reformers opposed allegory, that is what they opposed. But at other times, the Reformers employed allegory, but only when it was anchored in the one meaning of the text. Benjamin Keach was a faithful English Particular Baptist pastor who signed the Second London Confession of Faith. He wrote a massive interpretive tome titled Tropologia in which he proceeded to open the allegorical/typological, metaphorical, and tropological senses of Scripture. You can research it using AI and Google. He did not believe the one sense of Scripture is limited to the literal sense but expanded to typology and allegory and tropology. The same method of interpretation is evident from the preaching of Charles Spurgeon (often maligned by literalists). But these Reformed Baptist brethren didn't see any conflict with our venerable confession because there isn't any. It is found throughout our Reformed and Particular Baptist heritage. Tolle lege. The procedure of looking for the meaning of the text, how it points to Christ, how to apply it, and how it gives us hope for the future, arises from studying the way that Jesus and the apostles themselves studied the Bible. While I don't have space to work it out fully here, consider just one example from the author of Hebrews which is Paul, in case you were wondering. :) See Hebrews 12:5-6 and the manner in which the preacher handles the biblical interpretation of Prov 3:11-12. Context shows a fourfold sense. First, there is the plain sense. This is the truth that God trains or disciplines His sons. Second, there is the Christ-centered sense. God led Christ to the cross (Heb 12:2), and Christ learned obedience through suffering (Heb 5:8). He did this for us as our substitute and example. Third, there is the applied sense. God loves us, Christ teaches us how to suffer in love; therefore, in light of Christ, we can embrace suffering and persevere in love without becoming weary or fainthearted, knowing we are being made like Christ (Heb 12:11). Fourth, there is the final or heavenly sense. The goal of our training in sanctification is ultimately to see the Lord (Heb 12:14). Many other such examples of the Bible's interpretation of the Bible in this way could be shown. There is only one sense of the text. But that one sense is often though not always multilayered with many necessary implications." To which I replied: "Appreciate you for unblocking me to exchange replies. While some people decry this app, i find you get what you invest in it. Your input is greatly appreciated. I understand you may write more wherever you choose is best. My good faith yet pointed response will be a short list of where I consider you unhelpfully and sloppily blurring the lines logically, biblically, and confessionally: The first and most obvious: the 4fold sense as a tool for reading texts, versus interpreting a doctrine (e.g., baptism). A figure of speech, versus a second sense. Typology, versus invented allegory. Preaching a text, versus interpreting a text. Rejecting a method’s abuses, versus rejecting the method; illicit to overlay even the quadriga’s structure on our confession. And a big one: the implications of one meaning, versus four different senses or meanings." Please, stay tuned and be on the lookout for an episode of the Urban Puritano Podcast for a discussion of these issues.
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